Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Why do you ask?

It happen again today. A phone call, and of course how are you doing. Then right on before my mouth could open the purpose of the call. It doesn't matter really, even when the phone call dragged on for almost 2 hours. It was all about them and asking me what should they do? I try too give what information I think will help them, but really they need to listen and just go to whom I tell them too go too. Sigh It is the way it is.

I am fine by the way. I finally painted the front bedroom, and got it back to gether again. Now I can stop beating my self up for not making myself get too it sooner. I will take a bit for me too get use too the color. I can't decide if I like it or not. No matter I am not about too paint it again for some time too come.

Everyone is coming here to my house for Thanksgiving and I have been trying too decide the menu. I have too laugh at some of the things I have fixed for Thanksgiving. Pizza, ham sandwiches, and a few other things. Yet everyone seemed to agree that they liked what I fixed. Lack of money? NO. Just lack of wanting too cook a great deal after working all week. Easy. Lazy what ever. Still I believe it is all about family being together and spending that special time with each other. This year we will have an empty chair. Am I sad? Not like you would think. Although I feel these waves come over me of wanting too cry, but it doesn't happen. I really am happier with life than most would think. It hit me the other day as I paid my taxes that I didn't owe anyone any thing. That all was mine and I could do what ever I like for the first time in my life. It is alright even though I miss Jim. It is just different and not a bad different. I have accepted life for what it is now, and I see the good in my life. It is good, I am good.



Dorrie said...

yay for YOU! It's time for you to take your own life in your hands and do what YOU want!

Too many people with problems don't see the problems of others. Sometimes it's not intentional, depending on the problem. They need someone to listen, but you do as well.

Thanksgiving: make it a potluck! Everyone should bring something so you don't have to spend so much time in the kitchen but with your guests. But make sure everyone tells you ahead of time what they'd like to bring so that you don't have 10 salads and no meat or veggies! lol

Anonova said...

Good for you, Roz. :) I hope you enjoy your Thanksgiving and your family time.

Fijufic said...

I hope you sorted it out for them...You always give great advice.

Sunny said...

Good is the word :) I agree with Dorrie's suggestion of "Potluck" ! Glad you and everyone will be together. Yes, you are's about "being together." :)

Silentwhisper1 said...

Smiles warmly at your post.
Well done my friend. Well done.
Always warm hugs to you))))))